Life is challenging. No kidding.

Constantly remind myself to be thankful for all the blessings in my life does not make me not complain about what things could be if I had spent more time focusing on things I really wanted.

“Make it happen” they say. But is it that easy? There is a plethora of things that excite me.

First and foremost, music. I love to sing, write and compose, but never really share, being overly critical of my abilities. I also love science and engineering, and have been thinking for a few months about exploring these new horizons, but have to think on the implication of going back to school on my personal and financial life. Finally, I have been writing this novel… I am still on the first page tho, hahahaha. Sci-fi— I feel I need a stronger plot tho. to be continued.

Maybe I just need to start things… *shift of consciousness*

I plan on 2015 to be the woman I was always meant to be. Looking passed judgements, focus on my goals, plan strategically and act.

Wish me luck.

©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2015

Published by French Girl In Brooklyn

A blog about #ME: The Self-declared Woman of a Rich Ethnical and Cultural Background moving through life with a very unique lense - #WRECB

8 thoughts on “#InBecomingTheWomanIWasAlwaysMeantToBe

  1. So intriguing that I am constantly in that spot too!! Unable to decide which dream or passion to follow at a certain point in time… This year, I chose music as well and joined the praise team at my church. But I miss my art, my paints and charcoal =( I also miss blogging and writing. I was writing a book too. Been writing it forever, LOL! Did you ever continue writing yours? I’m encouraging you to get back to it!!! I’ll be your first reader 🙂



    1. Well yeah, I think we were exposed to too many things and haven’t found the true passion, or haven’t been able to explore completely how to experience it to it’s fullest. I also think that as a woman there are a lot of fields that we unconsciously avoid because considered “men dominated”, etc… As I grow older I become more and more the woman I have meant to be all these years. Challenging. I still want to write that books but now I am focusing on some music. I hope that very soon I’ll be able to become better and make my living with it. I’m looking forward to reading your blog sis 😉

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