Four years ago I started my own small business Aoede’s Hands It has been an interesting roller-coaster, full of challenges and lessons for me. Firstly, It was never planned. I have always loved accessorizing unbranded, very simple clothes with fabulous accessories, such as belts, shoes and bags. I also really loved earrings and necklaces, butContinue reading “My little Business is 4 years old: Happy Birthday Aoede’s Hands”
Author Archives: French Girl In Brooklyn
How do I deal with certain things as a Self-Declared Woman oF Rich Ethnical and Cultural Background (WRECB)
Disclaimer: my ideas and opinions are subjected to change as I go through this beautiful thing we call life. You can help me shape my ideas by commenting and sharing your own perspective, as long as it is done in a respectful manner. I am looking forward to hearing from you! These past few daysContinue reading “How do I deal with certain things as a Self-Declared Woman oF Rich Ethnical and Cultural Background (WRECB)”
I can’t get no satisfaction…
Although I do not miss my twenties, I religiously celebrate my 25th birthday’s anniversary every year; I jokingly do so as a reminder of an awesome time of my life when I didn’t care much about anything. I used to love the club! I think I was 16 the first time I had been inContinue reading “I can’t get no satisfaction…”
This desire of being acknowledged, yet to be left alone
Almost everyday, I leave my house with this desire of being acknowledged, yet to be left alone. Acknowledged as that girl who enjoys being well put together. Although I hate to care so much about how I look, I will be honest: I meticulously stare at myself in the mirror at least once a day;Continue reading “This desire of being acknowledged, yet to be left alone”
#tbt
My hair was too wild and my skin too brown – so they said. I wished my hair was straight and long and my eyes clear as the sea, so they’d like me. I wanted color lenses so badly so I could be pretty [too]. It was hard, not being acknowledged in so many ways.Continue reading “#tbt”
Framing principles
Good day! I was asked for one of my Philosophy class to write about 3 principles that are important to me. It pushed me to think of what my values were, how I had evolved over the years and how much more I wanted to accomplish in life. Overall that was a great exercise forContinue reading “Framing principles”
#TheOnlineShoppingCase
I my name is Daphné and I’m addicted to internet browsing: I can honestly say that I’m wasting countless hours looking for new clothes, shoes, accessories, make up, books, cute animal videos, TED talks, and everything else under the sun. Instead of doing what I ought to do, I often feed my addiction by consultingContinue reading “#TheOnlineShoppingCase”
I am a graduate!
I am curious. I like to know why things work the way they work, people act and think the way they do. My quest for knowledge is driven by my fascination for understanding. Every new experience is an opportunity to adjust and strengthen my beliefs and grow accordingly. When I decided to switchContinue reading “I am a graduate!”
10 Years.
February 12, 2004, 10 years ago, today, I was landing in JFK Airport. It took me a little while, but I finally found my friend Hichem. He had come to pick me up by car. Back then, we were allowed to carry up to 72kg of luggage (around 160lbs), so my bags were quite heavy.Continue reading “10 Years.”
My New Year Resolutions
I had an amazing year.But I plan on having an even greater 2014 year. Hope you do to! Meanwhile, here are my Resolutions: ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2013
Intox vs detox
Many tend to rationalize the things others say and/or do according to their own standards and past experiences, myself included. I cannot deny that personal values blend with “statistics” help us assess our surrounding and navigate through the world the best we know, but could systematic assumption harm our good judgement? Or how could weContinue reading “Intox vs detox”
It might look messy from afar…
(Pic by Brianna Kilgore) Like many of us, I sometimes feel depressed. That’s why I like to remind myself how awesome my life is. Moving to New York almost 10 years ago has been one of the most important life experiences I have ever had; and although the big apple can be a lonely place,Continue reading “It might look messy from afar…”
Keeping it Real
I truly believe that we are the product on our environment. Hence, I refuse to put myself in a box (as pretty and comfortable as it might be for you and me) because of my “Brownness”. Neither my complexion nor hair texture truly defines who I really am as an individual. Occasionally, most of theContinue reading “Keeping it Real”
#ItIsWhatItIs
I miss France & Europe, and lately I have been glamorizing about my mother’s land the way Americans do, which is the way French (and non New Yorkers) think of New York City from watching Sex and the city, which is uncanny… I randomly fantasize about going back to France but then I have to reconsider:Continue reading “#ItIsWhatItIs”
Intro: Where Are You From?
“If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.” Audre Lorde I guess I am not what y’all were expected. I usually get one of the two reactions when I disclose that I am from France: “nan, you’re not!” or “oh really?”. Then I haveContinue reading “Intro: Where Are You From?”