Don’t EVER let inflated male egos Deflate your sense of self ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
Author Archives: French Girl In Brooklyn
#FoReal
I am smart, caring and confident & enjoy my own company if I wasn’t myself I’d try to kick it with me #FoReal ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
The Sky
Versatile is the Sky Reflecting my inner desires Varies in shade and intensity According if it is noon or midnight The Night’s passionate indigo Expects the bright embrace of the pink morning light Unless the stormy clouds Start their impetuous fight Temporarily, that is Cause we all know that in the end It will alwaysContinue reading “The Sky”
#OntoSthng Part1
You know you are #OntoSthng when You start seeing yourself the way Your loved ones see you When a The Good + The Bad + The Ugly blend into a special kind of Unique #OntoSthng ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
#ButAsOfToday
Take me as I am Bold and Bright Or Let me fly away I may not be What you had thought or prayed I understand, Just let me know, & I’ll be on my way. Life is short Plans change Love evolves What can I say? Maybe, tomorrow – it will make sense #ButAsOfToday TakeContinue reading “#ButAsOfToday”
#JustPlantingSeeds
“We accept the Love we think we deserve” If you are wondering If it’s not the moon and the stars If this made you think If you feel some type of way You probably deserve more #JustPlantingSeeds ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
#Momentum
Shit’s complicated- but here we are: making the best of it. Beating the odds Breaking records we never knew existed Yet, too often living with restraint Tipi toeing around fragile egos. Their subconsciously know that the Power sipping through our pores must meticulously get washed away by judgement & ever so slightly policed, err’day WithContinue reading “#Momentum”
#JustInCaseYouAreWondering
I don’t owe *ish to anyone But if I decide to love you, I will give you the world #JustInCaseYouAreWondering ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
#TenGuiltyPleasures
1. Watching cat videos on Instagram 2. Roaming in Marshall’s for hours 3. Eating Nutella 4. listening to 90’s misogynist hip hop songs 5. Girls dancing on a pole 6. Internet shopping 7. Smoking Shisha 8. Sipping on Hendricks + Tonic + 3 lemons 9. Pretty boys 10. Your lips on mine #TenGuiltyPleasures ©️ DaphneContinue reading “#TenGuiltyPleasures”
#OnBeingCompassionate
Love & Hatred: The frequency spectrum between pain and ecstasy #OnBeingCompassionate ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
#OnFriendzoning
The story of one way extrapolation The ultimate Trap. My Ego’s boosted whilst yours bruised I’ve been down this road before I know how it feels It feels just like tachycardia on blush cheeks Mixed emotions ’bout my Crush & my Feelings, & Crushed Feelings Deflected [Lust] interest My Ego’s bruised whilst his boosted IContinue reading “#OnFriendzoning”
#OnBeingVindictive
You don’t ever have to take it upon yourself to “teach someone a lesson” The universe got this #OnBeingVindictive ©️ Daphne Mia Essiet, 2018
#OnGrowing
Did we grew apart Or never were aligned? Were we ever asking the right questions? Attempting to ascertain causes For future references. I can’t afford emotionally taxing relationships no more and won’t subject myself to unnecessary burden I now value my time, health and soul too much to stretch anymore of it I regret IContinue reading “#OnGrowing”
#Picky
Picking Clothes: 1. Do I really like it? 2. Does it look good on me? 3. Am I comfortable wearing it? (will I take the subway with it?) 4. Is this my style? 5. Do I have something similar in my closet? Picking Men: 1. Do I really like him? 2. Do I like whoContinue reading “#Picky”
About Kanye
Delivering ideas in an eloquent and clear way is important so to avoid misinterpretation. I think this is something to thrive for and definitely a cultivated skill that in order to be maintained and perfected needs to constantly be tested. I have always been interested in the way Kanye West thought. His self-confidence and (IContinue reading “About Kanye”
The Form or How Moving to America Reshaped my Identity as a Black Woman
I was 23 the first time I was asked to officially identify my race. I had to fill an employment form and could only pick one option. The situation was anxiety-inducing because despite the fact of not being white, could I call myself black? As long as I can remember, people always asked: “Tu esContinue reading “The Form or How Moving to America Reshaped my Identity as a Black Woman”
#Microagressions
Bodega guy said: “Hola Mami! Que tal hoy Dia” I said: “Est-ce que je peux vous aider?” You see my Black ain’t Boriqua nor Dominicana My black is French and Nigeria That Lady said: “Oh my god, I love your hair” I grabbed her hand midway I said: “Don’t touch my hair” Or I’ll seeContinue reading “#Microagressions”
#BackAndForth
#BackAndForth in between Contentment and anxiety: The beautiful life I am living Pursuing my dreams Yet, the time I have wasted Trying to make the best of it- But won’t be able to reclaim My time. #BackAndForth in between being Divorced & being Free No kids, nor responsibilities I could hang out all night butContinue reading “#BackAndForth”
#ImHere
I used to be fearless But somehow, somewhere Things changed It took a while to heal It took a while but still- #ImHere Praise the little redheaded girl who pushed me – and I pushed her back: harder, to the floor – all because she was challenging my intellect. I knew how to spell “Oignon”!Continue reading “#ImHere”
#AndImWaiting
As if the slope wasn’t slippery enough You rubbed your body in Sweet Sandalwood And sat under the sun Warm and soft and buttery, Reflecting Browns and Blues Radiating sensuality You burst with light You move with soul And your sea salt caramel hue’ Sure set the tone My blood pressure Rises My heart beatContinue reading “#AndImWaiting”